My scar is nearly 7 weeks old, has healed, but still feels so very raw emotionally.
When I look at my scar it says to me "You didn't plan for me, you didn't want me and still don't, but I am with you now. You will find a way to peacefully accept me, learn to understand me and maybe one day come to love me for the great battle scar that I am...you earned me as a warrior mama."
When I touch my scar it says to me "I am here, you can't forget it and won't. I am the way you birthed your baby and it is OK. One day you will peacefully accept me, learn to understand me and come to love me for that."